根本: fundamental, basic, root, simply, absolutely (not), (not) at all...
抚养: to foster, to bring up, to raise...
宽: wide, broad, loose, relaxed, lenient...
要害: vital part, key point, crucial...
黄色: yellow (color), pornographic...
活: to live, alive, living, work, workmanship...
差距: disparity, gap...
农历: the traditional Chinese calendar, the lunar calendar...
瓜分: to partition, to divide up...
格格不入: (idiom) inharmonious, incompatible...
